Angry At The BF

Hello Everyone:

I am so angry at the Brit BF. He messaged me this morning to tell me that he wanted a paise in our relationship. Why? The reason he wanted a pause in our relationship is that he felt that we were on two different planes, causing him to have reservations about our relationship. What does he want me to be?  Like him?  Yes, I have a whatever-happens-today-happens attitude not a more focused path. I can deal with that without his interference. I just want his love and devotion not career advice. I'm not a home improvement project. I don't him for that. Yet it feels like he can't accept who I am.  I know my shortcomings and I don't need the constant reminders. I could take the childish approach and point out all of his flaws, which there are many. I can accept them.  They're not deal breakers. One thing he's been very opinionated about is my blog. Truth, while I appreciate his suggestions, I wish he'd stop. I don't tell him how to work his animation project. It's not for me to tell him what to do on the working world. He's a man and can handle his own affairs. Why can't afford me the same level of respect?  He needs to learn to separate the two. Work life is work life and private life is private life. I just too upset to say anything more to him. I don't want say anything that I might regret. The afternoon turned around with an incredibly productive blogging session and a great conversation with a friend on Virginia. I still furious at him. I don't want to talk to him for a while. I'll just send his holiday gift with a note and get that off my desk.