Monday, May 25, 2015

Not Thinking About Weddings

Hello Everyone:

It is a very quiet Memorial Day for yours truly.  Once again I am being plagued my slow WiFi and no place to sit. I really have to get on mom's case about internet service in the house.  Otherwise, my day has been okay, not bad, not great, just okay. The Brit BF is off on a bank holiday today so what is he doing?  He is being a total guy and watching soccer all day and sending flirty messages. Sounds like something I get to look forward in the event we get married. That's a very long way in the future but nice again, I find myself looking at wedding thIngs again. I do this ever so rarely; only when I feel a relationship is branching into serious territory.  The Brit BF is serious but, again, I would need to spend more time with him to decide if this is the real thing or not. A wedding is only one day in a life, a marriage is forever and you have to be absolutely sure that the one you marry is the one you truly want to spend your life with. Besides, a divorce can be an expensive mess.  Indulge me for a moment, what would my ideal wedding look like. I want something just for us. I've never been a fan of the gala weddings so I would love a small ceremony, in a garden or on the beach at sunset. This would be followed by a honeymoon, maybe a full-on celebration at a later date.  Just the two of us exchanging rings and vows in front of a couple of friends. Maybe do something really wild, like get married on gondola in Venice or at the top of the Eiffel Tower.  Both probably doable. As long as it's no at drive through wedding chapel in Las Vegas or something equally tacky, I'm good with it. Knowing the Brit BF's devotion to Manchester United soccer club, he'll suggest mid-field at Old Trafford Stadium. Pleeeeease. Seriously, a wedding is so far off in the future, I can't bothered with it.  Stil, it's fun to indulge in fanciful thinking. 

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