Trust Issues

 

Hello Everyone:

Remember when I said it bothered me that mum stupidly cut me out of the decision making process?  Apparently my concerns were quite well founded. I have  been after the BIL to let me know what’s going with a banking matter.  Yes, it involves my receiving some money. Anyway, I was hoping to have that money by now so I can begin to make plans with it. That hasn’t happened and now I have no money for food. When I ask the BIL for information, I don’t get a response.  I make an effort to be transparent but he and Sis aren’t into it.  This is really bringing up some serious trust issues. When I decided that I really had no choice but to work with them, I thought okay let’s see how far I can trust them. I thought it was fair and they are related to me.  I still do appreciate them being forthcoming when I ask for information but now I’m being ghosted.  I realize that they have actual jobs and straightening out mum’s affairs isn’t it but that doesn’t mean BIL or Sis leave me out of the information loop. Makes me wonder what else are they hiding from me.  I’m thinking that I may have misplaced my trust in them.  My basic attitude is I’ll trust you until I have a reason not to. I have my reason, the complete lack of transparency from them. I don’t really know who else to turn to and I’m not going figure it right now. All I know is I don’t feel so confident in the BIL and Sis right now.