Hello Everyone:
Today was just one of those days. Neither good nor bad, just one of those days. I finally came to some sort of understanding with the BIL about the mum thing. Both he and I agreed that it didn’t make any sense for mum to trust me with pretty much everything, yet cut me out of the decision making after her death. I think what still bothers me is the a) even though the BIL and maybe Sis realized it, no one said anything at the time and b) when I brought up the subject with mum she just blew me off. Now her actions are causing more work for everyone. I shouldn’t be so mad because that’s so typical of her. She does and say things without considering the consequences. Truth is it’s pretty insulting to me not to be included in the process. Mum may have thought that she was lessening my burden but that’s not how it played out. Instead her actions have made things more difficult. Anyway, for now things are stable. The good part of today is I went grocery shopping and got most of what I needed. There still a few other things but it’s not terribly urgent. Hopefully tomorrow will be less of a day.
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