Monday, July 15, 2013

Jobs and relationships

Hello Everyone:

I hope you all had a nice weekend.  I did something just now that I feel a little uneasy about, I applied for a job in San Francisco.  It's an Architectual Historian position at a private.  I'm not uneasy about the position itself because it sounds like something can reasonably do.  I am uneasy about the prospect of moving out of town for work.  Getting away from the family isn't the issue, in fact I welcome it.  The hang up is the bf.  We have a great relationship and he's so positive and encouraging.  I don't want a commuter relationship or have to end it because in one end of California and he's in the other.  It sounds silly to give up, what looks like a great opportunity, for a guy and I'm definitely jumping the gun.  I just don't know if this would be a great idea.  I sent resumes out to local firms and the Department of City Planning so it's not like I don't have my fingers in the local pie.  Still, I'm seeing signs that we have a future together.  I know he may not want to move to San Francisco and be far away from his newly widowed mom.  He does have a bother who lives in Palo Alto, which is about one hour south of San Francisco.  Still, nothing ventured, nothing gained.  I canon,y do what I can and leave the rest to the Man in White.  Who knows maybe the Man in White will see fit to make everything fall into place.

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