Keep Repeating Myself

Hello Everyone:

Sunday evening time and to write down a few thoughts. Friday there was a bit of mama drama. Mum was feeling of breathe so Sis came to take her to the emergency room. Fortunately, she can home in the afternoon and remained stable the whole weekend. Funny thing is while she was in the ER, I was at home getting everything I needed to done. This happens, without fail, every time mum is out of the house for a period of time. The reason is simple, she’s not in my way or distracting me fruit me what I have to do.  When she stays overnight at sis’s house I even manage to sleep better. Kind of tells you who and what the problem is. Over dinner I repeated my general issue with having to carry the bulk of mum duties while Sis and her family get off easy. I’ve been saying the same thing the whole week and I’m not sure it’s having much of impact. Essentially, I want Sis and her family contribute a little more to the cause. The problem is, you tell them do something and that’s all they do. For example, when the BIL takes mum to the grocery store. He sometimes just drops off in front of the building and Inhave to come down to bring everything up. Once in a while I can understand but the proper thing would be to finish the job, bring the groceries up and help put them away. You don’t get a prize for just driving the car.  Sis doesn’t get any trophies for keeping track of mum’s medication and talking to the doctors. Anyway, I just plan to keep repeating myself until something gets through. Otherwise, the weekend was pretty standard. I’m just ready crash.