Hello Everyone:
It's Sunday evening and the end of another weekend. The relative from the San Francisco Bay Area and her daughter showed up. Originally, I thought got they were going to be in town in a couple of weeks but on Friday, mom told me that they would be coming this weekend and leaving Monday. I decided to pass on seeing them because, I really no relationship with them. The cousin has no interest in staying in touch with me and naturally, I have no interest in being in touch with her. I mean, how do have any kind of relationship when you don't make any attempt to stay in touch? This is one of the reasons why I love the Brit BF so much-he stays on touch. I talk, he talks, we have a connection. I just wish I could touch him. You can't have a connection with another person when you don't work at it. Relationships take work and one person can't do all the work. It seems like when it comes to familial relationships, I have to do the work and the other person doesn't have to do anything. The funny thing, when I decide not to join in some family relationship, I get labeled as difficult. Hey, I'm not some seat filler, I'm person who has something to say and is a good listener. But nobody seems interested. So, okay, no surprise I'm not interested in cultivating any sort of relationship. That's the way it goes. Anyway, tomorrow is another day.
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