No Invite

Hello Everyone:

The weekend was pretty good, for the most part. I say because I did get things done but mum casually  annoys need that the BIL and youngest nephew are coming over next Saturday and she suggested that I invite the Sometime BF. Let me tell you just how annoyed I was to hear that. Incredibly annoyed.  I like having my quiet Saturday afternoons to read and having someone draped on my bed, fast asleep. This brings me to the Sometime BF. Mum’s spent the last 24 hours hounding me to invite him. I explained to her that I didn’t want to invite him because he doesn’t know when to leave. That’s true but what I didn’t tell her is that the last he was here, he kept touching me in a way that made uncomfortable. He wanted sex and I didn’t want any of it. I hoped my non-reaction to him would be enough. By having here again, he might think of it as an invitation to try again. Also, I think mum is trying to get us together for good despite the fact that I told I didn’t think he was the one. Pretty typical of her, deny the undeniable, in this case it will never happen between us. It just will not happen. All he wants is sex without the commitment. I won’t have it. Anyway, I told her I don’t plan to invite him over this time. She decided to invite another couple, fine.